We’ve all been there at one time or another. It matters little if you are specifically a photographer; you could be a designer, a calligrapher or another type of artist. Regardless of your job title, at some point, a potential client has gushed, raved and admired your work only to reply to your pricing with “Oh, I was hoping to spend a little less…”
Womp, wommmmp.
What gives? Why is it, that in an artistic field pricing is inherently negotiable? Why would we never in a million years waltz into a local Best Buy, gush and rave about the new IPAD and then tell the sales girl that “we were only looking to spend around $200 today….” and expect them to re-price that coveted tablet? I’ll tell you why: it is because we value those products at their price. When Apple tells us that the Ipad is $499, we don’t question it because we value it. We see it as a luxury item, not something we necessarily need, but something we would really like to have (it has video! and the retina display! and the pretty colors!)
Just like Ipads, new phones and fancy vacations, professional photography is a luxury.
Photography is a Luxury, Not a Given.
No, not everyone can afford to have their pictures taken every single year, but I gaurantee if they value your work they will pinch their pennies and save up to be able to afford such a luxury. So although I try and work with people as best as I can, at some point I had to start valuing myself– my time, my art and my business and standing firm in my pricing. It’s not up to you to try and explain the cost of quality equipment, taxes, insurance, website fees, etc to your clients. Your ideal clients will value your work where you price it, and that is the type of person you want to form a relationship with.
You Get What You Pay For
We all know that when it comes to anything in a creative field, you absolutely get what you pay for. Recently I had a potential client (who decided I was too expensive) mention they got their photos done for a fraction of my cost —with unlimited time, locations and outfit changes. Needless to say, the photos reflected the pricing. Aside from business costs, your clients are paying for your expertise. You’ve most likely spent years learning your craft, investing in equipment and becoming a master of your skill. As business owners, we have to be okay with letting clients move on. If they don’t value your work, then let them go elsewhere (and chances are, they will be back asking for you after they see for themselves what the difference is!).
Beware of Offering Discounts
When I first began my business, I did a lot of work for little or free. I was portfolio building and it made sense for me to do that. I started to increase my pricing, and would get contacted my friends of those I had done the free or cheap work for. Of course those friends expected the same price, and it was a bit tricky to un-paint myself out of the corner of being the “cheap” photographer. Now, I rarely (if ever) give discounts or price breaks. I know what I am worth and stand behind that. In some cases, trading services works well and can be a huge benefit to your business. Maybe you need a new logo– find a calligrapher and see if they have any projects that need photographed. In that case, you are both getting something you need. The key to these kind of relationships is making sure the work traded is even and fair– you never want to feel, or have someone else feel like they got the short end of the deal.
In the beginning, when you are starting your business you are going to have to make decisions about these type of clients. Is it worth it to offer a discount during your portfolio building stage? Do you need the work? At some point though, you will have to make that mental move from being an unsure beginner to confident professional. Stand behind your skill, because you are valuable! Your time is valuable and I promise, the clients you want will agree wholeheartedly!
The pitter patter of toddler feet mixed with the sounds of hairspray, laughter and shouts from boaters enjoying the lake. The sun had come out, the flowers had arrived and everyone was making their final preparations. The day was perfect, and Carrie and Justin were ready to make things official! Joined by their closest friends, Carrie's daughter and their precious little boy, they made their commitment to each other with sparkling Gun Lake at Bay Pointe Inn as their backdrop. The bride wore a stunning lace gown accented with the most beautiful gem encrusted belt and wore her hair in a classic high bun. Guests enjoyed the casual atmosphere and had cocktails on the lawn and sampled bite sized cookies and desserts. During reception time, adults danced and chatted as the kids ran off the end of the dock and took a summer swim. Nothing could have made this wedding more perfect for this amazing family! I am so thankful I got to be a part of such a fun time, and make new friends in the process (isn't it great when that happens!?) Here are some of my favorites from their day!
Enjoy the slideshow below, or click the left or right arrows to scroll through at your own pace!
After you've secured your venue, photographer, florist and other key wedding players, it's time to start planning how your day is going to go. I was a bride once too, and I get it, everyone wants to tell you HOW you should do things and why their way is the best. My best piece of advice here is to go with your own gut and plan your day for what will best suit you and your groom.
With that being said, I am going to tell you why as a photographer I always recommend a first look for my bride and groom! When it comes to deciding whether or not you want to see the man you've been waiting to marry before your ceremony I think it is important that you make an informed decision. So, let's talk about the pro's of having a first look!
What Is a First Look?
A first look is a time set aside for the bride and groom to see each other. I believe this time can be really special. It is the perfect way to be able to document your groom's reaction to you in all your bridal beauty in a very personal way. I have also seen that having this time helps calm last minute nerves and gives the couple a time to exchange notes, gifts and a hug before they commit themselves to each other forever!
So, Why Should I Have a First Look At My Wedding?
As a photographer the number one reason I recommend this is for timeline purposes. Weddings days are hectic and chaotic most of the time. Carving out a time for you to see your groom and have portraits taken allows the timeline for the day to be as relaxed and calm as possible. You don't want to try cramming in family photos, full bridal party photos AND your bride and groom portraits all between ceremony and reception. While this can be done, usually it means leaving guests fend for themselves for a couple of hours while they wait for you to return. And if you have a ceremony that cuts it close to sunset, trying to get all those photos before losing the light is pretty much a nightmare. I also want to point out that in general, your wedding party (and you!) have already had a long day of primping, hanging out and waiting around and so by the time you've had your first kiss, all you want to do is get to celebrating!
Another incredibly good reason to get all your photos out of the way prior to ceremony? Because that means, once you say I do and kiss your spouse, you are done! Besides knocking out some family photos (in case you have grandparents or relatives that only arrived in time for ceremony) you will be ready to greet guests, relax and enjoy the reception that you've probably paid a lot of money for. Past brides have said that this makes the day so enjoyable because they can't really focus on and enjoy the friends and family surrounding them instead of heading off to do an hour or two more of photos.
So does a first look sound right for you?
If you are working with me on your wedding day, we will pick out a special and private spot for you and your groom to see each other. We'll capture the moment he sees you for the first time and then give you a couple of minutes to talk, exchange notes or gifts or just take a breather from the rush of the day! Once you are ready, we will take bride and groom portraits and then add in your bridal party to knock out all the photos we need to get! If your family is there and you want to get family photos done before ceremony too, we can add that in so that you literally will be done with all formal photos for the day! It's just that simple!
So, what if you still want to go traditional?
Maybe you are in love with the idea of your groom and everyone else seeing you for the first time as you walk down the aisle. Does that mean you are doomed to a day of hurried, unrelaxing wedding photos? Not necessarily. For you, it will be super important to communicate with your photographer and ensure that between ceremony and reception you have plenty of time (and daylight!) to make sure you get great photos. The most important photos, the ones you will hang in your home and show your children, are going to be of you and your new husband, so its beyond important to make sure you don't schedule a sunset ceremony with no first look and then expect stunning photos in the dark.
No matter what you choose, it is important that you work with your photographer to come up with the best timeline that suits your wishes and offers optimal times and locations for photos! No decision is the wrong decision, as this is 100% YOUR day!